You are a living SOUL not a living flesh...
"And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul." Genesis 2:7
And this is why most people struggle because they are more intentional on living from their flesh, or their ego, than from their soul.
Let's take a look at Soul Relationships.
Most people are "looking" for their soul mate, but they are really looking for someone who can satisfy, or pacify, their flesh in some way. In most cases, they want someone who can make them "look" good.
See "looking" for your soul mate indicates that you are desiring something that you can SEE externally.
So you draw people to yourself who LOOK the part but don't feel the part.
Oh, Oh... did you just feel something as you read that?
Yes you see it... but you don't FEEL it.
Visually you are stimulated, however within, you later discover that you were taken in by the counterfeit rather than the real deal because you didn't take time to discover your feelings, or worse yet, you didn't honor the feelings that you had.
You know that feeling... the one where something just feels off, or something just doesn't feel right?
Now you find yourself in a place where you realize that this person that you were "looking" for, the one who you are with, does not resonate with who you truly are, and what you are trying to be.
Your expectations, desires, goals, vision and even vibrations clash and then... poof, they are gone, or you are gone within. You no longer feel connected to who you are, and the connection you thought you had with them, left a long time ago.
And you're left to wonder (yet again)... where did I go wrong? What is wrong with me? Why do I always make the wrong choices?
Let me help you out here...
Love is not a "seeing", it's a FEELING...
What most mean when they say that they desire a soul mate, is they desire someone who's going to really love them... they are "looking" for love.
But love is not something that is seen, it's felt...
Love is an energy form that cannot be seen with our human eyes.
Love is felt by the heart and soul.
We are a living soul, not a living flesh. Our soul is the alive aspect of who we are, our internal being, not our fleshly, external self.
Stop looking for love... start FEELING for it.
Your feeling self is who you really are.
Your soul... your intuition... your inner sense is the true you, and the truth of you.
The TRUTH of a Soul Mate...
Your true soul mate will complement your own energy, not repel it...
Your true soul mate will see your fullest potential and support it, not suppress it...
Your true soul mate will assist, and allow for the growth of your soul, not stifle your growth...
Your true soul mate will provide open and honest communication with you, not tell you lies and be closed off...
Maybe that's why common sense has left the building because it's time for us to allow our inner sense to guide us.
When you set the intention to feel for love, rather than look for it, you make room for the person with the energy that will complement your own to attract to you.
It's time for you to distinguish between the desires of your ego versus the needs of your soul.
It's time for you to set intentions regarding love rather than just craving visuals of love, that often prove to be counterfeits. Counterfeit money looks like the real thing, but the right tools will quickly discover the fake.
It's time to stop "looking" for love and allow your soul to feel for love.
If it don't fit, don't force it... just relax and let it go.
It's time for you to release what no longer serves your soul.
So how do you know?
If it's subtracting from you more than it's adding to you... it's a liability... NOT AN ASSET.
When you work with me to Unlock Your Relationship Code you will learn how to release what no longer serves you so you can make room for what will serve your soul.
Read more about that here...
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I am Denika Carothers, Life Coach, author, healer and Mental and Emotional Wellness specialist. I help my clients transcend the pain and trauma of rejection, grief, abandonment, loss and abuse.