Life & Relationship Coach | Soul Guide | Emotional Wellness Specialist | Transformational Speaker Helping Women Let the S.H.I.T. Go™ and Rise Into Their Sacred Power
Hi, I’m Denika Carothers—and yes, I talk S.H.I.T. (Shame, Hurt, Insecurities, & Triggers.) Because that’s what’s been weighing you down.
And baby, it’s time to Let the S.H.I.T. Go™.
Emotional S.H.I.T. is just like physical waste:
When you don’t release it, it backs you up—clogging your peace, congesting your clarity, and creating toxic buildup in your heart, mind, and soul.
Rejection. Betrayal. Abandonment. Fear. Grief.
When you hold it in, it holds you back—from love, trust, joy, wholeness, and truth. I help women release what’s been buried inside--so they can heal their wounded hearts, reclaim their power, and finally breathe again.
If your heart is tired from holding it all together while breaking inside… If you’ve been carrying the weight of your past for far too long...
Then this is your invitation to release what no longer serves you—and return to the woman you were always meant to be.
Because your healing can’t wait.
I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to walk with you back to your Self.
To hold space. To hold the mirror. To help you remember that you are not broken. You are becoming.
My superpower? Connection.
People say my presence feels like a soul hug—safe, embracing, real, and loving. And when you feel that deeply seen, heard, and held, the healing begins.
You’re not here by accident. You’re here because your soul is ready to rise.
Through soul-rooted coaching, transformational teaching, and sacred storytelling, I guide women back home—to their truth, their wholeness, and their divine purpose.
✨ This is where emotional healing meets spiritual awakening. ✨ Where the pain you’ve endured becomes the path to your power. ✨ Where you remember: You are not broken. You are becoming.
This is Soul Work. This is Sacred Alignment. This is where your healing begins.
Real Transformation. Soul-Deep Results.
If you’re on the other side of a painful relationship, navigating heartbreak, sadness, fear, or uncertainty — know this:
You’re not alone. And this moment doesn’t define you.
It refines you.
Most of my clients experience profound emotional and spiritual breakthroughs in less than 90 days — not because I offer cookie-cutter solutions, but because I guide from soul to soul. I help you confront the S.H.I.T.™ (Shame, Hurt, Insecurities & Triggers) that’s been holding you hostage and support you in rewriting your story from a place of power. With over 25 years of experience, I’ve helped thousands of women shed their pain, reclaim their worth, and rise with renewed clarity, confidence, and purpose.
What Makes My Work Different
Unlike traditional coaching or therapy, my work blends intuitive insight, spiritual truth, emotional mastery, and lived experience. I combine sacred storytelling, practical tools, and divine wisdom to:
Help you create inner alignment across spirit, soul, and self
Reconnect you to your worth, purpose, and power
Guide you in cultivating conscious relationships — starting with YOU
Equip you with strategies to lead, live, and love with intention
This isn’t surface-level work. This is soul work. And if you’re ready for real transformation — I’m your guide.
My Sacred Why
I do this work because I am this work.
I’ve walked through grief, loss, heartbreak, and fear… and I’ve come out the other side with my voice, my joy, and my power intact.
Now, I dedicate my life to helping other women do the same — not just to survive, but to soar. Because your story isn’t over.
It’s just beginning.
And I’d be honored to walk part of your journey with you. It’s time to discover the transformative power of Letting the S.H.I.T. Go™ — Shame, Hurt, Insecurities & Triggers — so you can create mental and emotional wellness for yourself, transform your relationships (starting with the one you have with yourself), and cultivate a life that is happy, peaceful, fulfilling, purposeful, and powerful.
You deserve that life... and you owe it to yourself. Let’s walk together — into healing, into wholeness, and into the sacred, aligned life you were born to live.
S - Shame Affects Your Self-Worth and Self-Identity H -Hurt Affects Your Emotions, Trust, and Mental Well-Being I -Insecurities Affect Your Self-Esteem and Relationships T - Triggers Affect Your Reaction and Behavior Towards Others
Here's how Denika can help you...
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This isn't just coaching. This is soul work. Heal, release and rise with me by your side. Together we'll confront and clear the S.H.I.T.™ (Shame, Hurt, Insecurities & Triggers) that’s been keeping you stuck, so you can RECLAIM your power, realign with your truth, and start living the life you know you're meant for. Your healing begins the moment you say yes to YOU.
Being single isn't a setback - it's an opportunity to become your most, powerful, authentic self. This is a sacred space to heal, grow, and thrive in your singleness. Whether newly single, healing from heartbreak, or choosing this season intentionally, you'll find sisterhood, guidance, and the tools to become whole within yourself.
Denika Carothers is a dynamic speaker and soul-stirring voice in the spaces of emotional healing, purpose, and personal transformation. Her presence is magnetic, her message is healing, and her delivery is unforgettable. Looking to inspire your audience with depth, truth, and transformation? Request Denika to speak at your next event, summit, or podcast.
Denika Carothers is an exceptional life coach who has truly transformed my perspective on personal growth. She creates opportunities for reflection, helping me detect and discover new ways to view my role in life. Denika equips her clients with valuable tools to navigate challenging situations, all while building on their unique strengths. Her spiritual attunement to individual needs adds a profound layer to her coaching. Striking the perfect balance between being, doing, and becoming, Denika has guided me to unleash the best version of myself. I highly recommend her services to anyone seeking meaningful change and empowerment. - Najah Gall
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Working with Denika has been one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself. From our very first session, I felt seen, heard, and truly understood. She has a natural way of guiding through thoughts and pushing people to see their power. She doesn’t give generic advice, she challenges me (in the best way), and holds me accountable! I leave every session feeling empowered and motivated. If you’re on the fence about getting a life coach, don’t even think twice, just book a session with Denika!!!. You won’t regret it. - Oneshia Willis
My spouse and I were in a difficult place after 16 years of marriage, and Denika worked with both of us, individually as well as collectively, to help us discover the roots of the malaise that had infected our relationship. It was more than her almost preternatural ability to understand and empathize with us; there is a deeply spiritual element to Denika’s presence that resonates with one’s soul. - Jamal Khawaja
My coaching experience with Denika was nothing short of amazing! She is extremely passionate about what she does. Once your assessment is done, the coaching begins day 1. She challenges you to think different, be better and do better. She opens your eyes to things you didn’t see because you were “blinded” by them and new things in general. She only wants the BEST for you and when you leave her, not only will you feel that but you’ll see it in the new ways you do things. I’ve been to therapy twice and this coaching experience was by far the better than both of my therapy experiences. If I had to choose between therapy and coaching, I’d choose coaching over therapy any day. If you’re debating whether you should try coaching with Denika, please give it a try. I promise you won’t regret it!!!! - Tyisha Smith
Thank you Ms. Denika for your coaching and support that you have given me thru the year. I began with a sense of being "stuck" in life. Thru our weekly sessions, I was able to view situations differently and learn to reframe it to more positive perspectives. By doing this, I was able to be reenergized with my business but more importantly it improved my relationships with my family. I highly recommend coaching from Ms. Denika and I live with a purpose daily! - Mark Bui