"I don't know where to begin! My husband and I have grown more within the last few months than we ever have." Carmen Martin
S.H.I.T. (Shame, Hurt, Insecurities & Triggers) Will Sabotage Your Relationships — It’s Time to Let It Go™
You’re not here by accident. You’re here because something inside you knows:
Your relationships aren’t thriving the way they should — and you’re ready to change that.
Maybe you're asking:
“Can this relationship be saved?”
“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of partner?”
“Should I stay, or should I walk away?”
“Why do I feel so unseen, unloved, or unfulfilled?”
The truth is — love doesn’t have to be this hard. But healing the emotional weight you're carrying? That’s where the work starts.
You’re not here by accident. You’re here because something inside you knows:
Your relationships aren’t thriving the way they should — and you’re ready to change that.
Maybe you're asking:
“Can this relationship be saved?”
“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of partner?”
“Should I stay, or should I walk away?”
“Why do I feel so unseen, unloved, or unfulfilled?”
The truth is — love doesn’t have to be this hard. But healing the emotional weight you're carrying? That’s where the work starts.
Rewire. Reconnect. Realign.
Unresolved Shame, Hurt, Insecurities, and Triggers — your S.H.I.T.™ — silently shapes how you show up in your relationships. Whether you're fighting to save something important or ready to create a whole new chapter, I’m here to help you clear what’s in the way and rebuild from a place of self-worth, clarity, and conscious connection.
Together, we’ll work to:
This is about more than fixing a relationship.
It’s about healing the root so you can experience the love you truly deserve — from others and from yourself.
Together, we’ll work to:
- Identify the patterns that keep repeating (and why they started)
- Shift your emotional response and restore your inner power
- Practice mindful communication, boundary setting, and energetic alignment
- Reconnect with your authentic self — the one who attracts and creates healthy love
This is about more than fixing a relationship.
It’s about healing the root so you can experience the love you truly deserve — from others and from yourself.
Your Next-Level Love Starts With You
Whether you’re repairing, releasing, or reimagining your relationships — I’ve got you.
Let’s walk this sacred path together and create connections that feel like home.
Choose the session that aligns with your journey, and let’s begin.
Let’s walk this sacred path together and create connections that feel like home.
Choose the session that aligns with your journey, and let’s begin.
**NEW SERVICE**
Confidential Relationship Clarity Session | 30 min. | $150
When it comes to relationship issues, sometimes it's challenging to open up to friends or family members. This 30-minute session is designed to provide a safe and judgment-free space to explore your thoughts and feelings about one (1) relationship issue you may be struggling with. Whether you're dealing with romantic relationship challenges, family conflicts, or friendship issues, this session will guide what steps you can take to bring about resolve.
(Limited sessions available)
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This session will help you discover how you got here and what steps to take to mend what's broken.
60-minute Session
Learning how to cope after a divorce is crucial for emotional healing and moving forward with your life,
60-minute Session
Transform your dating life by embracing intentionality to make meaningful connections.
30-minute Session
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This session is for couples experiencing separation, who are ready to explore the potential for healing.
60-minute Session
Learn how to co-parent to establish a healthy connection for the well-being of your children.
60-minute Session
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Investing time and effort into preparing for this lifelong partnership enhances relationship success.
60-minute Session
Ready to be happy again on the other side of heartbreak and disappointment? This will help you.
30-minute Session
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"My spouse and I were in a difficult place after 16 years of marriage, and Denika worked with both of us, individually as well as collectively, to help us discover the roots of the malaise that had infected our relationship. It was more than her almost preternatural ability to understand and empathize with us; there is a deeply spiritual element to Denika’s presence that resonates with one’s soul. She was fearless in her selflessness to guide us to a better place. The words to describe our gratitude and our love for her have yet to be invented. Her assistance went well beyond what we expected in a therapist or a counselor; now she belongs to us as a part of our family." -Jamal Khawaja
"I had a session last night with Denika. I’ve been divorced for 1.5 years following a 38 year marriage. Her ability to pull out rooted issues were extremely helpful. She helped me with perspective and reorganizing my thoughts and words to line up with my spiritual beliefs to enable me to move forward. Her discernment and wisdom is much appreciated. I love our time together. I’m always learning something new and I value her wisdom." -Jenean Gimler
"My husband and I have been in the caring hands of Denika since June of this year. We as a newly married couple were faced with a handful of challenges and the greatest of all, getting to know each other. Denika immediately rolled up her sleeves and jumped in the trenches to help us navigate understanding each other and looking at life agreements from a different perspective. She was not just available for our weekly sessions, she became a point of contact for any moment in time that was too heavy for my husband or I to understand or navigate... I couldn't be more happy with our decision to journey this path with Denika and for the growth we have made as a couple. She is one of the best financial and life investments we have made as a married couple." -Angela Ward
"When I embarked on this journey with Denika, there were situations in my life where I believed that a breakthrough was not even possible. Because of her coaching, I experienced a huge breakthrough that I was not expecting, all because I had shifted - which created a shift in everything and everyone around me. I began this journey looking for individual coaching but Denika helped me understand the degree to which my external relationships are a reflection of the relationship I have with myself, and that I can actually create what I want to experience in all areas of my life and in all of my relationships, both personal and professional. Each session with Denika feels magical as she effortlessly unravels behaviors and situations and suggests new ways of thinking and being. If you are hesitating about working with her, please don’t. Doing this work with her will change your life."
-Janay Henry
-Janay Henry
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