"Denika is a gifted and compassionate individual. Her authenticity is the truth and her desire and commitment to fulfill her purpose is so obvious. She doesn't do fluff. She tells the truth in love! I recommend anyone that wants to receive insight, guidance and the truth in love speak with Denika." Genyne Vinson
Transform Your Relationship From the Inside Out
Many people build their relationships on a foundation of fear, desperation and lack rather than a foundation of love.
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Love Foundation
No Obligations ("desire to" rather than feel obligated)
Based on respect Compassionate Completely responsible Always kind Generous Unconditional Gives more than it takes Just |
Fear Foundation
Full of obligations (have to)
Lack of respect and much disregard Full of pity/feeling sorry/victimhood Avoids responsibility Unkind Selfish Full of conditions Needy and always looking to be given to No justice |
Relationships that feel like "hell" typically are built on a foundation of fear, drama, and control. If we are in a war for control, it is a result of having no connection to self-love and self-awareness.
The truth is that we haven't learned how to love unconditionally. A "me, me, me" attitude does not represent love. It sucks from everything and everybody with no effort or desire to reciprocate. Its focus is on taking more so than giving. This energy can be very exhausting and destructive to a relationship.
Another major challenge experienced by many is feeling stuck in a relationship with a narcissistic person whose energy is controlling and manipulative.
The truth is that we haven't learned how to love unconditionally. A "me, me, me" attitude does not represent love. It sucks from everything and everybody with no effort or desire to reciprocate. Its focus is on taking more so than giving. This energy can be very exhausting and destructive to a relationship.
Another major challenge experienced by many is feeling stuck in a relationship with a narcissistic person whose energy is controlling and manipulative.
Selfishness vs. Self Love
Selfishness, control and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom and love will build the most beautiful relationships.
Mastering the love within begins with self-awareness... aware of who you authentically are. You can't truly give (or receive) what you have not learned to cultivate within yourself. It is essential to become aware, and accept, that everyone dreams his or her own dream, and it's perfectly okay.
When you are aware that it is not the responsibility of anyone else to make you happy, and that happiness is the result of the love coming out of you, you can begin to master self love.
You cannot master love without practicing it. Love does not need to be justified or explained, it simply needs to be practiced.
Selfishness, control and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom and love will build the most beautiful relationships.
Mastering the love within begins with self-awareness... aware of who you authentically are. You can't truly give (or receive) what you have not learned to cultivate within yourself. It is essential to become aware, and accept, that everyone dreams his or her own dream, and it's perfectly okay.
When you are aware that it is not the responsibility of anyone else to make you happy, and that happiness is the result of the love coming out of you, you can begin to master self love.
You cannot master love without practicing it. Love does not need to be justified or explained, it simply needs to be practiced.
Know WHAT you want
To begin a great relationship you have to first know what you want, why you want it and how you need to contribute to creating it.
For a relationship to truly be an amazing relationship it is important that the two people in the relationship be aligned... mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They don't need to be exactly like you but their energy and vibration should match yours. Like a key in the right lock... it opens you up and grants you access.
If you're hungry and haven't identified what you want to eat, nor have communicated that effectively, you may end up with food but it might be very dissatisfying to your palate.
So who are you, what do you want and what makes you valuable?
If you can't answer these 3 questions then chances are great that what you are experiencing in your life and relationships feels meaningless, unfulfilled, dissatisfied and unhappy.
I want to help you to...
- Create relationships in which you are loved, adored and valued
- Put yourself and your happiness as a priority while supporting the happiness of others
- Cultivate the greatest and happiest aspect of yourself
- Stop fighting and giving all of your energy away to people who don't appreciate and respect you
- Stop being the "strong" one and become someone who people desire to support
- See the value in dating if you are single
- Release the energy of trauma from past relationships that causes you to fight, repel and retreat from what you truly desire
When you know and respect your worth and value, walking away from what doesn't value you becomes easy. Being able to release the affects of unhealthy relationships will open you up to experiencing healthy, satisfying, peaceful and joy-filled ones.
If you feel that you are spending so much time, energy and attention trying to manage and repair a relationship that imploded a long time ago it might be time for you to identify the disconnect and brokenness that lies within you. Your external relationships are simply a reflection and/or an aspect of your internal relationship. Because we draw to ourselves who and what we are, every relationship you have is an outer reflection of your inner self.
To begin a great relationship you have to first know what you want, why you want it and how you need to contribute to creating it.
For a relationship to truly be an amazing relationship it is important that the two people in the relationship be aligned... mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They don't need to be exactly like you but their energy and vibration should match yours. Like a key in the right lock... it opens you up and grants you access.
If you're hungry and haven't identified what you want to eat, nor have communicated that effectively, you may end up with food but it might be very dissatisfying to your palate.
So who are you, what do you want and what makes you valuable?
If you can't answer these 3 questions then chances are great that what you are experiencing in your life and relationships feels meaningless, unfulfilled, dissatisfied and unhappy.
I want to help you to...
- Create relationships in which you are loved, adored and valued
- Put yourself and your happiness as a priority while supporting the happiness of others
- Cultivate the greatest and happiest aspect of yourself
- Stop fighting and giving all of your energy away to people who don't appreciate and respect you
- Stop being the "strong" one and become someone who people desire to support
- See the value in dating if you are single
- Release the energy of trauma from past relationships that causes you to fight, repel and retreat from what you truly desire
When you know and respect your worth and value, walking away from what doesn't value you becomes easy. Being able to release the affects of unhealthy relationships will open you up to experiencing healthy, satisfying, peaceful and joy-filled ones.
If you feel that you are spending so much time, energy and attention trying to manage and repair a relationship that imploded a long time ago it might be time for you to identify the disconnect and brokenness that lies within you. Your external relationships are simply a reflection and/or an aspect of your internal relationship. Because we draw to ourselves who and what we are, every relationship you have is an outer reflection of your inner self.
"One of the best encounters I've had with a person! She gave great solutions and she had all the right answers she blew my mind! She is such a phenomenal and gifted individual. I highly recommend her!......she is excellent! Very professional, thural, real and welcoming with excellent communication skills. Thanks so much Denika!!" Keekz Duncombe
Infidelity - dishonoring of self.
Abuse - unsure of who you are.
Lack of Communication - you don't honor your voice.
Insecurity - Don't know your self-worth; can't see yourself for who you are.
Abuse
Abuse - unsure of who you are.
Lack of Communication - you don't honor your voice.
Insecurity - Don't know your self-worth; can't see yourself for who you are.
Abuse
All of your relationships, beginning with the ones you experienced as a child, have in some shape or form formed your opinion and thoughts concerning yourself. You cannot cultivate a healthy body without first cultivating healthy conditions within the body.
Your external relationships are a direct reflection of your internal relationship with self. This is because you have a specific emotional vibration that sends out a specific frequency. The frequency that you emit attracts the identical frequency back to you to support the emotional vibration. Your vibration is just a fancy way of describing your overall state of being. Like energy (vibration) attracts like energy. Your emotional vibration will attract to you, through relationships, a similar energy to support your vibrational frequency.
When we work together I will go in-depth to help you understand this process of creation and manifestation as it pertains to your relationships. If you don't learn how to break the unhealthy relationship patterns and cycles, and heal them, you will find yourself experiencing the same types of relationships. Even though the partner is different the energy will be the same.
Changing the Relationship Experience
When you don't know how to identify your emotional vibration you can attract, by default, relationships that are out of alignment with what your soul desires but are in complete alignment with your vibration.
It might sound confusing but trust me it's really quite simple. If you are ready to unlock the perfect relationship for you you have to first change the energy code. And the good news is you can change any time you choose.
If you are ready to intentionally create new relationship experience then schedule a relationship assessment session today and let's get you on the road to experiencing happiness and wholeness in your relationships?
When you don't know how to identify your emotional vibration you can attract, by default, relationships that are out of alignment with what your soul desires but are in complete alignment with your vibration.
It might sound confusing but trust me it's really quite simple. If you are ready to unlock the perfect relationship for you you have to first change the energy code. And the good news is you can change any time you choose.
If you are ready to intentionally create new relationship experience then schedule a relationship assessment session today and let's get you on the road to experiencing happiness and wholeness in your relationships?
"Denika offered clear simple solutions to the problems I was facing. The kind of answers that left me feeling the answers were so simple I should have thought of them. Amazingly helpful and so easy to speak to. Thank you for your amazing kindness and wonderful words." Jason Holden